Dating Disasters (The Meditating Man)

Hey Lovelies,

On Tuesdays, I thought it would be fun to share some dating disaster stories. A few of the stories will be my own and others will not. When browsing, I came across a funny story on theguardian.com that I’d like to share with you all.

This story was written by Kay, age 30, from London, England.

‘My date started doing his daily meditation in the middle of the restaurant’

“The last date I went on wasn’t exactly the worst I’ve ever had, but it was definitely one of the funniest. I went out with a guy I met at a singles event. We chatted a bit and he seemed nice, so we set up a date. We ended up at a restaurant, but opted for drinks and dessert rather than a full meal.
On the date it soon became clear that we were very different. He’s really into new-age philosophy and I am much more grounded. But the best part was when, about half an hour into the date, he started to meditate in the middle of the restaurant.
It was part of his daily routine and he didn’t want to skip it even though we were having dinner. He did inform me in advance and I didn’t object. I was too shocked. I tried to be very polite and withdrew to the ladies’ room when it was time for his meditation. I came back to the table in time to save our waiter who brought us dessert and clearly didn’t know what to do with a meditating guest. After dessert, he said he was available for a second date. I was left contemplating how best to tell him I wasn’t keen.
In the end we ended up going Dutch on the bill. I was glad, because that way I knew I didn’t owe him anything. He never called, and I haven’t tried to get in touch either.”

Just visualizing this story made me laugh out loud! I commend the man for his dedication to his practice. I’m sure many individuals would be caught a little off guard if placed in the same position as Kay. I commend her for respecting his choice and being polite about the situation. Oftentimes, spirituality can be a bit “much” for others that do not understand the practice. It is helpful if your partner is able to not only understand your journey, but to help you and encourage you along the way!

With Love,
Miss T

Does Location Matter in Spiritual Dating???

Hey Lovelies,

So earlier today I was thinking about the concept of spiritual dating, and I wondered what are the most spiritual or enlightened cities in America. Living in the South, I do not hear much about the concept of non-traditional spirituality and it is oftentimes frowned upon to even think outside the traditional Christian norm. After pondering for a while, I did a little research online and found an article published by Trip.com. They conducted a study to calculate the most enlightened cities in the United States using various considerations and the top ten list is as follows:

1.Berkeley
2.Santa Cruz
3.Santa Monica
4.San Francisco
5.Palo Alto
6.Pasadena
7.Seattle
8.Portland
9.West Hollywood
10.Salt Lake City

I am sure it is no coincidence that all of the cities listed in the study are on the West Coast, more particularly, California. California is thought to be a very democratic and forwardly thinking place by many, and this list seems to be indicative of that. I question why it seems the East Coast is still very hesitant to open up to spirituality or other forms of religion outside of the conventional practices. Living in the Bible belt, so many individuals are programmed into thinking a very specific way, and the consideration of otherwise is heavily frowned upon. I have had the privilege of living on both coasts of the country in my life, and I must say I have observed a slightly different mindset betwixt the two. I find, overall, the West Coast seems to be a bit more open-minded and accepting. Whether or not the feeling is genuine has yet to be determined. And don’t get me wrong, I truly love the East Coast, this opinion is just based off of my own personal experiences.

Now you might be wondering what this information has to do with spiritual dating, but in actuality, it may be helpful in finding a potential mate. If you are a spiritual single looking for love or even friendship, you may consider looking on the West Coast. Even if you do not live in the area, there is always the potential to date from a distance, especially if finding a spouse with similar beliefs to your own is a high priority. Thankfully, there are many online dating services today that allow you to interact, meet, and even date individuals that may not be geographically close to you but share your interests. All of this is not to say that you cannot find spiritual individuals in other parts of the country, you just may have a little more difficulty.

If you want to share your experiences with spiritual dating, leave it in the comments!  Also, let me know if you think geographic location makes a difference finding a potential mate. Let’s chat!

With Love,
Miss T

Welcome!

Hey Lovelies,

Thank you for checking out my blog, The Essence of Love. This blog will take a spiritual look into the topics of love, sex, relationships, and more! As a young woman, currently on a spiritual journey, I search to find where divinity has an affect on interactions in society.

I believe love is the most powerful force in the universe and has the ability to withstand any and all adversity. It is a feeling that is inclusive of everyone, regardless of race, gender, socioeconomic status, and sexual orientation. Whether it is love of family, friends, companionship, etc., it is a sentiment that is universally felt by all during this wonderful and trying experience we call life.

The Essence of Love will explore surprising facts and statistics, funny anecdotes, personal observations, discussions, and more. Taking a spiritual approach will allow for a unique perspective and provide meaning in places where there seems to be none. In the words of a famous pop star from Barbados, “we all want the same thing…we all want love”, so let’s delve in!

With Love,
Miss T

 

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